In Other News #relationship advice

Not all relationships in the world are messed up, not all of them are dysfunctional and that is what we tend to focus on; but what about a happy relationship? Is there such a thing as a completely and utterly happy relationship? You might not know what you are looking for if you are in one, but don't worry, I've got you covered! While every relationship is different in its own way, these are just the foundations that every happy relationship has. Take a look!

1. COMMUNICATION

The biggest key to being and knowing you are in a happy relationship is that you know how communicate with one another! Lyndsie and I might have our problems with communication sometimes, but we know how to communicate with each other most of the time. If we didn't, we would be so unhappy and we'd never, ever be able to resolve anything! Communication is knowing how the other person is going to react and really understanding them.

2. SEX

Sex is another aspect of a relationship that is very, very important and one that is a key to a happy relationship. If you are in a relationship that has a huge lack of sex, there could be something wrong – or maybe you just aren't sexual people. Take a deeper look into this key fact and see how it relates to your relationship!

3. RESPECT

A deep and unwavering respect for your partner is one of the surefire foundation pieces for a relationship that is happy. If you can't respect your partner, why are you with them? You've got to have some level of respect, some level of care and a high opinion of your partner to truly be with them.

4. UNDERSTANDING

What goes hand in hand with respect? Understanding. You've got to be able to understand your partner, understand their moods, get their reactions and really know where they are coming from, otherwise it is going to be a hard, hard relationship that you're in.

5. POLITENESS

This isn't the fake polite that you pull when you are in front of business associates. Instead, you want to have some type of manners with your partner. You can still be yourself, still feel super comfortable, but there should be type some of level of politeness in your relationship – that's a key to a happy relationship!


6. FAIR FIGHTING

Oh, fair fighting is a huge one! If you want a relationship that is happy, you aren't going to want to name call or really hit below the belt with some of the comments you make. Instead, fight fair, fight politely and fight like you still care about each other. I know that it's hard sometimes, but it's worth it.


7. LITTLE THINGS MATTER

Finally, don't forget about the little things. Flowers once in a while and don't forget to tell each other how much you love each other.